Submitted by Robert Wertz
District 5495 Peacebuilder Chair
District 5495 Peacebuilder Chair
Dear Friends of Peace,
Resolution of conflict in general is a challenging process, especially with someone you love. Once achieved, one is prepared to practice the:
59th Ripple of Peace: Refrain from participating in others' arguments.
Arguments are full of powerful energy. They can carry anger, resentment, fear, jealosy, greed, hatred and other limiting emotions that feed on the energy of anyone in their vicinity.
Learn to remain centered in Peace when you are in close proximity to the arguing of others, especially when the conflict is among relatives and friends. Refuse to participate or be drawn into the argument. Remove yourself from the situation if necessary.
Once you able to maintain your own Peace while others argue, you may choose to add
Peaceful energy to the volitle situation and perhaps help diffuse an argument, through Peaceful interaction. Do this only if you can remain loving toward all parties, in both your thoughts and words, and detached from the content of the argument.
From Ripples of Peace: 111 Ways You Can Help Create Peace in the World by, Rae Thompson.
May you know and be Peace.
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Maintaining a neutral position when subjected to the dynamics of an argument can be a daunting task. Yet by practicing this week's ripple that goal can be more easily achieved.
60th Ripple of Peace: Be aware of what you are thinking, saying, and listening to concerning the people close to you.
Quantum physics asserts there is no such thing as objective observation at the subatomic level. The very act of observation influences the appearance of that which is being observed. In a similar fashion, when we put our attention on the specific qualities or behaviors of the people around us, we can influence what we see. Our thoughts and words can have an effect on all the people involved.
Pay attention to the thoughts that you allow to occupy your mind, especially when it comes to your beliefs and expectations regarding the people you love. You do them a disservice by thinking badly of them or holding on the unrealistic expectations. On the other hand, you help them immeasurably by focusing on their good qualities and accepting them for who they are.
Be aware of what you say about the people that you love. Talk about your friends and family members only in ways that respect and empower them. In addition, refrain from participating in gossip or listening to derogatory remarks about the people in your life.
From Ripples of Peace: 111 Ways You Can Help Create Peace in the World by, Rae Thompson.
Loved ones and friends are invaluable gifts. Treat them with the respect they deserve.
May you know and be Peace.
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By being aware of what we are thinking, saying and listening to concerning the people close to you prepares us to practice the:
61st Ripple of Peace: Teach Peace by example.
People respond to as much or more to what we do than to what we say. This is especially true with children, for whom our actions tend to speak louder than our words.
Demonstrate Peacefulness in your interactions with others. Whether you are talking with friends about controversial issues or disciplining your children, remain calm and at Peace as you speak. Use effective conflict resolution techniques to diffuse arguments in your family and to keep Peace with friends.
Make your day-to-day actions consistent with the consciousness of Peace.
From Ripples of Peace: 111 Ways You Can Help Create Peace in the World by, Rae Thompson.
Be the Peace ...